• 大家好,今天我要跟大家分享一个非常糟糕的经历,希望大家引以为戒。我曾雇佣过一位名叫刘女士的月嫂,她英文名叫劳拉,是上海人,1962年出生,现在已经62岁了。她住在法拉盛的Union Street。

    通过法拉盛红苹果中介所,刘女士接了很多单,包括月嫂、育儿嫂和通勤阿姨。我当初也是通过这家中介找到她的,结果真是后悔莫及。

    刘女士的谎言和隐私泄露问题 📸

    首先,刘女士满嘴谎言。我辞退她的时候,明确要求她不要随便分享我孩子的照片,她当时信誓旦旦地说绝对不会。结果呢?她不仅把我孩子的照片发给了其他潜在雇主,还在我的朋友圈盗用了我大女儿的照片,假装是她带的孩子。这种行为真是让人无法忍受!

    Hello everyone, today I want to share a very bad experience with you, hoping you can learn from it. I once hired a postpartum nanny named Ms. Liu, whose English name is Laura. She is from Shanghai, born in 1962, and is now 62 years old. She lives on Union Street in Flushing.

    Through the Flushing Red Apple agency, Ms. Liu took on many jobs, including postpartum nannies, childcare workers, and commuter caregivers. I also found her through this agency, and I deeply regret it now.

    Ms. Liu's Lies and Privacy Leaks 📸

    First of all, Ms. Liu was a complete liar. When I fired her, I explicitly asked her not to share photos of my child without permission, and she swore she absolutely wouldn't. But what happened? She not only sent photos of my child to other potential employers, but also stole photos of my eldest daughter from my social media, pretending they were hers. This behavior is absolutely intolerable!

    警惕满嘴谎言的纽约月嫂,刘女士1962年上海人

    虐待孩子 😨

    除了隐私问题,刘女士还虐待我的孩子。我儿子当时还很小,她经常对他大喊大叫,甚至动手打他。我发现了之后,立刻辞退了她。但是,她对我儿子的伤害已经造成了。

    PUA手段和虚荣心 💪

    刘女士还喜欢通过PUA手段让雇主对她产生依赖和信任。她总是说自己做这份工作是“纯粹为了爱孩子”,不是为了钱。然后又明里暗里地说你给的薪资比市场价低,让你觉得请到她是赚了。她的虚荣心极强,总是吹嘘自己无敌,一逮到机会就自夸“自己是万能的阿姨”。

    如果你曾经雇佣过她,或者打算雇佣她,请务必小心!她的行为真的让人无法忍受。希望大家引以为戒,避免重蹈我的覆辙。

    Child Abuse 😨

    Besides privacy issues, Ms. Liu also abused my child. My son was very young at the time, and she frequently yelled at him and even hit him. I fired her immediately after discovering this. However, the damage she caused my son had already been done.

    PUA Tactics and Vanity 💪

    Ms. Liu also liked to use PUA tactics to make employers dependent on and trust her. She always said she did the job "purely out of love for children," not for money. Then she would subtly imply that the salary you paid was lower than the market rate, making you feel like you got a good deal by hiring her. She was extremely vain, always boasting that she was invincible, and taking every opportunity to brag that she was "an all-powerful nanny."

    If you have ever employed her, or are planning to hire her, please be extremely careful! Her behavior is truly intolerable. I hope everyone learns from my experience and avoids repeating my mistake.