• 老婆第一胎，出院的第2天就把老婆送到月子中心去了，给各位男同胞说一下，能住月子中心就住月子中心，千万别逞能觉得能照顾好，有些事情还是得交给专业的人，这样大家都开心省事儿，每日5餐，除开早中晚还有下午茶，夜宵，还得营养均衡，真的在家弄不出来，还得有各种月子茶。

    一对一的护士，护士睡客厅带宝宝，老婆就只用睡觉，宝宝半夜换尿布和哭闹都不用她管，我也省心，药水擦身洗头，不做脏月子，赠送了宝宝游泳，可能是因为这个我家宝宝没有2月胀气，产康，住所期间老婆很喜欢做产康，为此还多交了几次钱，说的出所了也能用，还有老婆觉得人家产康师手法好，腹直肌分离没那么严重了。

    This was my wife's first pregnancy.  Two days after she was discharged from the hospital, I took her to a postpartum care center. I want to tell all the husbands out there: if you can afford a postpartum care center, definitely go for it. Don't try to be a hero and think you can handle everything yourself. Some things are best left to professionals. It makes things easier and more enjoyable for everyone. They provide five meals a day – breakfast, lunch, dinner, afternoon tea, and a late-night snack – all nutritionally balanced.  It's really impossible to manage all that at home, plus they provide various postpartum teas.

    There's a one-on-one nurse who sleeps in the living room and takes care of the baby. My wife only has to sleep; she doesn't have to worry about changing diapers or comforting the baby at night. It saved me a lot of trouble too. They also provide antiseptic wipes for cleaning and hair washing, ensuring a clean postpartum recovery.  They even included baby swimming sessions, which might be why our baby didn't experience colic at two months old.  My wife really enjoyed the postpartum recovery treatments during her stay and even paid extra for a few more sessions, saying she could use them after leaving the center. She also felt the postpartum therapist's techniques were excellent, and her diastasis recti wasn't as severe as it could have been.

    各种小活动，没事就去做手工，或者去做瑜伽和听育儿课，大白定期检查，说实话这个很好，毕竟娃有一点异常我们都怕，有专业人士就是不一样。

    总结一下，各位男同胞们，让老婆坐月子中心省心省事，压根就没有月子仇，也不怕婆媳矛盾夹在中间难做人，就是费点钱而已，在纽约法拉盛的，还蛮推荐这家月子中心，毕竟老婆从28天续住到了42天，房间很大，光线也很好。

    主要是饭菜都是自己厨师做的，不是预制菜，专户小姐姐也很不错，老婆说专户去上厕所都是去的自己的卫生间，分寸感满满。

    There were various activities available; my wife would do crafts or yoga and attend parenting classes whenever she had free time.  The nurses checked on her regularly, which was great, because we were worried about any potential problems with the baby, and having professionals there made all the difference.

    In summary, gentlemen, sending your wife to a postpartum care center makes things so much easier and less stressful. There's no postpartum resentment, and you don't have to worry about being caught in the middle of mother-in-law/daughter-in-law conflicts. It just costs a bit of money. For those in Flushing, New York, I highly recommend this postpartum care center. My wife extended her stay from 28 days to 42 days, and the room was very spacious and well-lit.

    Most importantly, the meals were prepared by their own chefs, not pre-made food. The dedicated caregiver was also excellent; my wife said the caregiver even used her own separate bathroom, showing great respect for privacy.